Are You Suffering From Dating Fatigue?

Are You Suffering From Dating Fatigue?

Dating fatigue is a term used to describe people who feel sick and tired with dating. This is actually more common than you think and it’s a result of people who have endured may struggles with dating, therefore they end up feeling disheartened by the whole process.

We all know that finding the right person to be with is not easy and it comes with many trials and tribulations. For many people they endure so many failures and setbacks with dating that they tend to give up on the whole thing. It’s no surprise either when there is so much poor advice on dating available now and then there are poor dating methods.

How can you get past this feeling of dating fatigue?

There are a number of things you could do. First, you should examine what you are currently doing to meet the right person and also look at what you’ve done previously. The reality is that many of the setbacks people experience with dating are because of the methods they used to meet new people.

When you use dating methods that aren’t optimised for you to meet the right person you can become frustrated and think that nobody likes you, and that it’s just not worth it. It’s also important that you remain focused on yourself to, focused on being an amazing person and living a great life. The other factor involves the dating methods you use to meet new people.

Personal introductions and matchmaking is a proven way to meet the right person because it’s such a highly targeted process, and you know you are meeting people who are likeminded and want the same things as you so it’s perfect overall.

If you want the best chance yet of meeting the right person then get in touch with us today and put an end to dating frustrations forever.

Dating… Expectations VS Reality

Dating… Expectations VS Reality

Most people have great expectations about how their new date is going to pan out. You will meet, look into each other’s eyes, feel that special ‘knowing’ and boom, you will fall in love instantly. The conversation will flow effortlessly; you will sit there thinking ‘How come I have not met you before’ and you will feel like you have known one another for a life time, rather than a moment. Its way better than one of those childhood fairy tales isn’t it? Let’s look into it a bit. Dating… Expectations VS Reality

Have you ever met a date and in a split second wondered ‘why am I here, why did I agree to have this date!’ Awkward body language, small talk and knowing looks of the wrong kind make you want to run and hide. You try so hard not to but you find yourself clock watching and then you make an excuse to leave early because of some sort of ‘emergency’.

Should you have expectations? Are they useful?

What’s wrong with treating each new date as a new opportunity to meet a unique individual and arrive with NO expectations at all?! At least it eliminates the chance of disappointment and allows you to just enjoy yourself, whether it’s meant to be or not.

Why can’t we all live more fully in the moment and cherish that life is about blessings and lessons? At the end of the day we’ll never know which it is unless we try. So try taking your next date as it comes. If it doesn’t work out, oh well! Move on to the next date.

Surely it’s more helpful to us to enjoy our experience by having no particular expectations than to have too many positive or negative ones, that’s not great at all is it?

Enjoy life and have fun!