Can you really balance love and work when you’re an elite single?
It can seem quite hard and almost impossible at times. One major reason why it can be so difficult is because of career demands.
Many elite singles are very career driven and focused. They are ambitious individuals who are striving for success. Many demanding careers require long working hours and a commitment to the job so at first glance it can seem impossible to find time for love.
Of course, for many elite singles this is a very big problem they face. They want to go out and meet new people, they want to find love but time constraints limit their activities.
We know that under these circumstances it can be difficult to find time for love and the right partner. However, most elite singles still do want to find love and settle down with the right person but it’s not always that easy to find the time, or more so, the balance between love and work.
So what are the best ways to handle this?
The first thing to do is to make finding a great partner a priority in your life. Just by making this subtle but powerful mindset shift you’ll be more receptive to the idea of finding love and be able to make more time for this area of your life.
Let’s face it, there are probably things you do now that could be replaced with time you’d spend looking for a great partner.
Alternatively, a personal matchmaker can effectively take the search off your hands. They can go out and headhunt for partners that are deemed to be a perfect match for you. This is perhaps the most effective way to deal with the difficult love and work life balance as an elite single.
This way you won’t even need to worry about finding time. Your matchmaker will find partners for you and then it’s up to you to find the time and go out a meet them.
This is perhaps the most effective way for busy elite singles to find the time for love and balance it with their work life.
Don’t Give Up On Traditional Dating…Just Yet
Are you at that point where you feel like all is lost when it comes to finding love? Are you feeling so lost and frustrated that you are considering online dating sites?
It’s easy to feel like all hope is lost at finding love when you continuously struggle to find a great partner. Maybe you even had a great partner once upon a time and now it just seems as if you can’t find another person to share your life with. In all of this frustration and negative experiences it is easy to get to the point where you may consider online dating.
Well, let’s just put it out there. You don’t need to give up on traditional dating just yet. There is still time and there is still plenty of ways that you can find love without having to resort to the online dating world. In fact, the online dating world is one of the worst places to look for love. Ask yourself the following questions:
- “How sure can you be that the people you meet on there want what you want?”
- “How can you be sure that they are serious?”
- “How do you know that they can be trusted?”
- “How do I know that I can trust the dating site?”
These are all some important questions you should really consider before taking the plunge into online dating. It is easy to feel like online dating is your last resort if you are feeling frustrated and lost but don’t despair just yet. There are still some traditional dating methods for finding love.
With personal matchmaking you are guaranteed a much greater chance of finding love than what you would on an online dating site. Online dating is full of fake profiles, cases of fraud, and not to mention the fact your private info is public information. There are too many pitfalls to be worth the risk especially in an area as serious and important as finding someone to spend your life with.
If you want to know more about how you can find love then personal matchmaking can help you. Get in touch with us today to find out more.
How Can Your Personal Matchmaker Help?
We speak to so many people each week about how as Matchmakers we can help find them a lovely new partner. For some they take the approach of trying to define to us explicitly what they want in an ideal match whereas others leave things more open and ask us to guide them in their choices.
Part of the role of your Matchmaker is to be your friendly dating adviser and between our great team of Matchmakers at Searchmate we now have many years of experience of helping to create happy couples so we know what we are talking about and we love what we do!
If you are hoping to meet the right one, remember that your Matchmaker will have spoken to lots and lots of men and women about what they want in a partner; what they find attractive and what puts them off! They will have also spoken to the particular man or women they have in mind for you and whilst they will not breach any confidences, they will be able to guide you because they have got to know both parties involved in a prospective match.
If you have very set views in what you want it can be more of a challenge as we cannot create others to an exact specification – we are working with real people after all and your personal matchmaker understands this. And if you are a lady reading this and for example, always thought you would never date a man with a beard, someone with red hair, someone who had never had children or whatever, you could just be missing out on the love of your life.
Generally we all want to find our partner physically attractive but they need to light up our lives in other ways too and we need to see people as a whole not just as a photo or as another single fact about them.
We have lots of great success stories here of bringing people together so if you are already one of our clients, enjoy letting your Matchmaker get to know you and through that connection with them, hopefully you will find a really great match.
If you have not yet joined us as a member we are more than happy to have a chat with you at no obligation, so feel free to pick up the phone and call us 9 till 9 weekdays or leave a message with your name and number and we will be happy to return your call.
See how having a personal Matchmaker could make a real difference in your life.
Ysanne – your friend in the dating business in North West England
The world of dating can be a cruel place to be sometimes.
And if you’re new to it or have already had bad experiences it can be very intimidating and that old adage ‘once bitten, twice shy’ can be very apt in the circumstances. So sometimes perhaps a friend in dating could be a very good thing.
The major problem in the UK is that there is currently no requirement at all by law for any sort of background checks on people taking part in dating and that leaves many people in a very vulnerable position indeed, especially with online dating, where anyone can be anything to anybody, without any checks whatsoever.
Which means that people with criminal records, convictions for fraud, sexual offences or violence are free to complete a profile on dating sites just as freely as anyone else. And they frequently do.
So if you’ve been a target in the past, asked for money, or been a victim of violence, it’s nice to know that there actually is an alternative and that Searchmate DO make thorough checks on people before they are allowed to join and that there is help and advice available throughout your membership with us, if it’s ever needed through one of our professional Matchmakers.
In the North West of England that person is Ysanne Seddon, our Personal Matchmaker in the North West.
Ysanne has a great knowledge of the dating marketplace and its pitfalls and hurdles and if you live in Cheshire, Merseyside, Greater Manchester, Lancashire or Cumbria then she is the lady who would visit and guide you through your membership options and answer everything you need to know about Searchmate and our high quality personal introductions in the North West region.
To make contact with Ysanne and arrange an appointment in your locality, ring us on 0800 466 4160 or email us at [email protected]
