Finding compatibility when dating
If you’re single and looking, then part of the fun for many of us, is going out on dates and meeting new people – it’s a brilliant opportunity and part of the pleasure and benefits of being single. But finding compatibility when dating is important too, we want your dates to be exciting and enjoyable rather than a trial or something you’d be tempted to escape through a toilet window to avoid.
There are lots of ways to determine if you and your date are compatible to create a healthy and long-lasting relationship. Many factors should also be considered such as individual commonality, interests and personality. Nowadays, magazines, newspapers and the internet provide convenient ways for couples to assess if they are really compatible. However, the best way to determine compatibility is to reflect on our personal needs and wants when it comes to dating.
If you want to assess compatibility, you need to know yourself first. This is easier if you are aware of what type of personality your partner should have. What do you want from your future boyfriend or girlfriend? You can start by thinking it through and making a list. Of course, you do not have to limit your search by the standards you created. You should be open-minded in looking for a match. Remember that the most important thing is finding someone who can share a bond with you.
Find a person who can understand you and enjoy a good conversation with. If they happen to look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie then it’s a bonus. Are similarities in beliefs, likes and dislikes important? Yes, of course they are, however, you need to consider several factors. Sometimes, feelings of love, desrie and acceptance are so strong that you are willing to put your differences aside, without further thought. But it does happen rarely!
We think you can improve your chances however and here at Searchmate, we’d love to help. We have one of the largest databases of attractive, professional singles in the UK. So if you’re looking for an attractive partner we can put you in touch. With carefully selected, quality singles, and we are one of the few personal matchmaking companies to cover the whole of the UK too. So why not get in touch and speak to Julie Lazarus, our Senior Membership Adviser on 0800 644 4160. Calls are free and Julie can be reached between 9am and 9pm everyday. Alternatively please click here to leave your contact details and we’ll get back to you within 24 hours.