How Men and Women Approach Dating Differently Traditionally, men have been portrayed as the pursuers in the dating game. Often, initial attraction plays a significant role in a man's interest. This isn't to say that deeper connections aren't valued, but physical chemistry can be a strong initial draw. Men frequently approach challenges,...
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lipstick and dating Oh, how we love a bit of romance! That intoxicating feeling of instant attraction – eyes meeting across a room, a look, a flutter in the tummy, a moment of such intensity that we understand what is meant by feeling ‘weak at the knees’. Many of us have enjoyed the experience of being ‘swept of our feet’ by Mr or Ms Wonderful...
It has been a week of particularly good news in the Searchmate office with some lovely emails in to say a special thank you to our great matching team for all their hard work and of course, for such pleasing results and we would like to share our dating success stories with our readers. We find men often become quiet when we have helped make...
Older dating Did you watch “Age Gap Love” on TV the other evening? I did, and thoroughly enjoyed the heart-warming stories of couples who had found love despite an often huge age gap. Most of these were, of course, extreme cases, as that makes for the best TV, but there were reasons why these people were together, from which I think we can...
New year, new partner? Have you been looking for a new partner, maybe tried dating but so far the right one has just not come along? Perhaps you have yet to look in the right place? Finding your perfect partner is not as easy as it used to be when we were back in our school or university days. The world then may have seemed pretty well stocked...
Christmas romance With that time of year fast approaching we are experiencing busier than ever phone lines here in the office at Searchmate. Christmas parties are in the offing and wouldn’t it be great to have someone rather nice to go with? Well if you are thinking of trying a personal introductions service such as ours, whilst we don’t...
These days just about everyone who joins Searchmate tells us that they are very young for their age and they want to meet a similarly youthful person to themselves. Men in particular may expect to meet women five years or more younger than themselves and of course there may be women we can suggest for them that are a little younger. But is it...
